Non-monogamous relationships : Good or Bad

Non-monogamous relationships are still frowned upon. here, are the things you need to know about it.

Non-Monogamous relationships can simply be defined as having more than one partner. The relationship could be sexual, emotional, or casual. They could be in a committed relationship yet romantically involved with others. Some of them are ethical, or open. Some are involved without the knowledge of the partner.

There are various types of non-monogamy. It is an umbrella term, there are various ways to practice it they are;

Open relationships:

This kind of relationship permits partners to have sex with other people. Both individuals are ok with it. Open relationships are very common.

Polyamory:

Polyamory simple means having more than one partner. Poly refers to multiple. These people love and desire more than one partner. There are two types of polyamorous relationships. They are; hierarchical polygamy and egalitarian Polyamory. Hierarchical polygamy has one main partner and others are not significant. Egalitarian polygamy refers to having partners that are considered equal.

Swinging:

Swinging refers to having another person involved especially during sexual activities. The other person does not have any romantic relationship. They get together with a couple for intimate practices. People in a committed non-monogamous relationship have their own rules set. The rules depend on the couple. Some only allow involvement sexually. Few are okay with emotional involvement.

Polygamy:

Polygamy is a practice of marriage to multiple spouses. Polygyny is a man marrying multiple wives. Whereas, polyandry is a woman married to more than one husband. Polygyny is more common in the context of Nepal. Polygamy is not legal in Nepal. However, there are many such examples.

Cheating:

Nonmonogamy is not necessarily done with an agreement. Many people are involved either sexually or emotionally with a third person. Cheating is doing something outside the boundaries of a relationship.

Benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships:

1. Development and growth as couples and individuals.
2. A huge variety of non-sexual activities.
3. All diverse needs are fulfilled.
4. The cases of cheating are decreased.

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Challenges of nonmonogamous relationships:

1. Jealousy, insecurity might start at some point of dating.
2. Might create an emotional distraction with a secondary person’s involvement.
3. The safe space between the couple might be destroyed.
4. Often they are not able to find a common ground.
5. These Partnerships are frowned upon by the community.
6. The birth of a child might also cause problems.

It is very hard to maintain a nonmonogamous relationship. Maintaining requires time and effort. The best solution is to have good communication and share how they feel. Only with the agreements of both parties, a happy relationship can take place. They also need to trust their partner and stick to the terms and conditions

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